What does it mean to you to be a military wife?

as submitted by Misty 


Being a military wife is EVERYTHING to me. It is not just the job my husband has, it is the way of life we have chosen to lead. My husband and I were married for 4 years and had 2 children before we decided that he was going to enlist. I have never regretted that decision. My husband is not the only one who enlisted, the whole family did. We put our hearts and soul into everything we do. I now look at things differently. There are things that others take for granted but I don't because I know of the many sacrifices the soldiers and their families have made over the years in order for all of us to be free. I am filled with a pride that I never knew before because of what my husband does. Being a military wife means that I stand tall and proud with tears rolling down my face as the Star Spangled Banner or any other patriotic song plays. I feel my heart break every time I hear of a soldier somewhere getting hurt or being treated poorly, regardless if I know them or not. Being a military wife means I will spend countless hours washing uniforms, cleaning scuffs out of carpet from boots, baking things for FRGs, attending meetings, and that is only when he is able to be here with us. It means I will spend countless days and nights alone raising our children, but I will never complain. It means that I cannot be selfish. I know that he is out there fighting so that others can be free just like us. What better role model could I ask for for my children? I have experienced a kinship like no other because of the military. Military wives have a bond that hold us together. We may have never met, but five minutes after we do, we feel as if we have known each other forever. Being a military wife means that we will move around a lot. I will have to find new houses, schools, grocery stores, daycares, etc. However, in my eyes, my life is an adventure. I would never have gotten to live in the places I have without the military. So when you say, "What does it mean to be a military wife", it's hard to answer. It's like asking me what it means to live. I tell you that I could not ask for my life to be any different. I love my husband! I love my country! I love being a military wife!
 

 

 

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